Another
purpose of trials, one that is often overlooked and even derided by the more
libertine among us, is that it produces discipline in our lives. Trials teach us
discipline. Trials teach us obedience.
Trials teach us in ways that prosperity and good times never could.
Hebrews 5:8,
“Though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He
suffered.”
This
passage in Hebrews is speaking of none other than the Christ, and it tells us
that even though He was a Son, even He learned obedience by the things which He
suffered. If Christ learned obedience by His suffering, would logic not
conclude that we too learn obedience by our suffering?
It
is love that tests our faith through trials, making it stronger, and more
grounded, before the enemy has a chance to attack and attempt to destroy us.
The love of God tests our faith to teach us discipline, to teach us obedience,
to teach us dependence, so that when we engage the enemy we are not infantile
in our thinking or our strength, but soldiers of Christ in the truest most
complete sense of the word.
If
we had not learned, and grown, and matured in our trials, would we even stand a
chance against the onslaught of the enemy? If we had not been taught to obey
and to depend and to be disciplined soldiers in our afflictions, would we have
known what to do when we found ourselves on the battlefield?
It
is easy to make light of these things, to brush them off and say that was for
another time, or God wouldn’t test us that way nowadays, but the Word remains
true yesterday, today, and forevermore, just as God remains true.
When
we perceive our trials for what they are, and understand their purpose, we
realize God is not being mean, He is being loving. God is not being a cruel
taskmaster, but an adoring Father whose deepest desire is to see His sons and
daughters being welcomed into His kingdom.
Even
Christ learned obedience through His sufferings. What lessons is our suffering
teaching us? What lessons are our trials attempting to convey? These are
important questions, because if we don’t perceive the lesson, if we do not
grow, if we do not learn obedience, then the trial will repeat until the lesson
has been learned, and we have gone beyond the level of wisdom we found
ourselves in before the trial started.
Can
we say suffering has taught us obedience? If not, then why not?
Is
it perhaps because we saw the trials and suffering as something negative,
something to be avoided, and circumvented at any cost? Is it perhaps because we
see countless self-appointed teachers telling us that the testing of our faith
is no longer a prerequisite, that God no longer attempts to teach us through
our trials but rather only through our blessings?
Whether
by small steps or large strides, if one continues in a direction long enough
the destination is eventually reached. We need not embrace great deceptions. It
is enough to embrace little ones time and again, and have them skew our
understanding, and impression of how things ought to be. Once our impression is
skewed, so are our expectations of how our lives should turn out, and we find
ourselves almost bitter toward a loving God who allowed trials in our lives for
the greatest of good, while we see them as the greatest of evil.
The
enemy knows if he can shift our perspective and compel us to see trials as
anything less than the blessings they are, we will enter them grudgingly, try
to figure out ways out of them on our own, and rather than allow them to
perfect us and glory in the knowledge that the genuineness of our faith is
being proven, we will murmur and complain.
God
also allows trials in our life to humble us. Yes, I know, we are all the
picture of humility, at least in our own minds, but God does need to humble us
from time to time just as He had to humble Israel of old.
Deuteronomy 8:3,
“So He humbled you, allowed you to hunger, and fed you with manna which you did
not know nor did your fathers know, that He might make you know that man shall
not live by bread alone; but man lives by ever word that proceeds from the
mouth of the Lord.”
Deuteronomy 8:2,
“And you shall remember that the Lord your God led you all the way these forty years
in the wilderness, to humble you and test you, to know what was in your heart,
whether you would keep His commandments or not.”
With love in Christ,
Michael Boldea Jr.
Amen. I was just reading 2Tim 2 and Rev2. 8-(Smyrna). My great concern is that Jn6.66(note numbers)will occur. Grace without Truth will cause many to be deceived and fall away, just as the serpent's tail comes from behind to sweep away the stars. May all of His people have the Mind of Christ. Jesus knew what His destiny on Earth was to be. I pray His people do too, because the Truth will set us free as His Grace gives us the power to endure. Doug
ReplyDeleteI have no problem with the kind of trials that actually do refine us. What I totally have no idea how to handle is the following type of thing - and I really wish you would address this. Perhaps now that you have a precious daughter you can relate to it.
ReplyDeleteI read an article in the news some years ago about some fishermen out in a boat somewhere off the coast of Texas, where there were some small islands and sandbars. They saw a suitcase lying on the beach of one of them, and went to investigate. In it they found the corpse of a little girl, about 3 years old, covered with cigarette burns and other marks of torture.
Now.... did this refine her spirit? Was it allowed because God is a loving father? Did she need to be humbled? Was this actually a blessing? Does it reduce the suffering she went through in any way if the perpetrators of this crime go to hell? Would she suffer any less if they repent and meet her in heaven?