Kicking people while they’re down might make the one doing the kicking feel superior physically and spiritually, but only in their eyes. If anyone witnesses the altercation, chances are they’ll have a different take on it than the sanctimony-fueled individual wagging his finger and showering the crumpled figure with spittle. We don’t like bullies. That’s a general statement, obviously, but all available evidence, anecdotal as it might be, points to the veracity of it. Even bullies don’t like bullies. Ultimately, there’s something broken in an individual who revels in the idea of victimizing someone smaller, weaker, and incapable of defending themselves.
As the adage goes, there’s a time and place for everything.
When someone acknowledges their shortcoming, sin, or fallen nature, when they
are seeking restoration and repentance is no time to keep kicking at them as
though they were a soccer ball. By all means, defend the truth with all your
might, but once someone has seen their error and is seeking a way back, that is
the time to show mercy and grace and aid them as we are able.
It’s easy to show love to the lovely and loveable. Everyone
wants to cuddle up to a pug, but few, if any, want to make kissy faces with a
blobfish. It’s more difficult to look upon a bloody, broken thing who might
have done you wrong in ways that left a scar and have the character reach out a
hand to help them get back to the truth. It is, however, what we are called
upon to do, what we must do if we are members of the Body of Christ.
Another thing to be wary of when attempting to turn a sinner
from the error his way is that you are actually pulling them up out of the
mire, and they are not dragging you down into it. The best way to do this is to
know yourself, know your weaknesses, know the things the enemy will use to try
and disrupt your growth and avoid them altogether.
If you know someone is in sexual sin and that they need to be
brought back from their wayward wandering, but you, yourself, fight the same
temptations, find another brother who does not share in the same vulnerability
and have them approach the individual, or do it together so that the enemy will
have no way of turning a good plan into a horrible execution.
If you were once a gambling addict, perhaps going to casinos
to preach the good word isn’t the best place for you. Perhaps avoiding them is
in your best interest because when what once was common becomes uncommon, it
can readily become common again if you give it the opportunity. Does it mean
you’ll automatically start scrounging in your pockets for change to feed the
one-armed bandit if you step into a casino? No, that’s not what it means, but
why not avoid the things you knew had you shackled and desperate once upon a
time?
Don’t put yourself in a position to do something foolhardy
that will necessitate someone else coming along and turning you back. If your
mission is to get someone out of a ditch but end up in the ditch yourself,
you’re at the mercy of another to come and pull you both out.
You’d be surprised at the excuses and justifications some
people can devise for doing what they’re doing and living how they’re living
because they have wandered from the truth, and it is no longer their standard
and plumb line.
Usually, when they are doing something antithetical to the
Word of God, they’ll use their own rebellion as anecdotal justification. Well,
we’re doing such and such, and so it must be okay with God because we’re doing
it. Hold on a minute, though; the Word of God says you shouldn’t be doing that
one thing you’ve just admitted to doing. Wouldn’t it be more prudent for you to
repent of the thing you’re doing than to justify it to yourself? Just asking
for a friend.
You can’t save anyone from drowning if you’re doing all you
can to keep your own head above water. First, you must gird up the loins of
your mind. First, you must know the truth. First, you must walk in His way
before you try to turn a sinner from the error of their way.
Yes, men wander from the truth, and it begins as a seed of
doubt planted in the heart at a moment when they’re distracted or otherwise
disengaged from being vigilant and watchful. We are most likely to let our
guard down around those we consider of like mind. When we’re among the
brethren, or what we deem to be the brethren, we’re not as vigilant as when
we’re out in the world, expecting attacks and deceptions from every direction.
We don’t want to consider that not all who are in the household of faith are of
the household of faith or that certain men have crept in unnoticed, turning the
grace of God into lewdness and teaching things contrary to Scripture.
It’s usually within a church setting that a lie can take root
in a heart because we are likelier to equate a church setting with the whole
counsel of God, and so less frequently question what we are being taught or
what we hear.
When our walk is superficial, without pursuing righteousness
and the virtues that the Word describes as pure and undefiled religion, we are
willfully wandering from the truth. We excuse our rebellion by telling
ourselves that, in that particular instance, the Bible meant something other
than what it said or that we already know the truth and need not test what we
believe against the Scriptures to see if it is proven.
Our excuses and justifications will hold water only for a
season, for when we stand before the great I Am, He will use the Word as the
plumb line by which our lives will be judged.
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