If we possess the heart of Christ, if we have been born and made a new creation in Him, then our response and reaction to the suffering of others must be rooted in compassion. Whether it was for a multitude or an individual, whenever Jesus acted, the Word always prefaces it by saying He was moved with compassion for them.
Cruelty is not a virtue. Dismissing someone’s pain or insisting
that they deserve to drink the bitter cup down to the dregs because you’ve
deemed it so is neither noble nor charitable. What’s worse, by far, is that it’s
not Christlike. We say we want to be more like Jesus, but the way we react to
another’s need, the way we interact with our fellow man, the compassion and
empathy we fail to exemplify say otherwise. Or is it that we just want to open
the eyes of the blind or walk on water? The secret is that you can’t have the
authority of Christ without possessing the heart of Christ. You cannot journey
through life absent love for the lost, affection for the downtrodden, and
compassion for those in need, yet wield His power at will. Stunted spirituality
is just that: stunted.
We are witnessing a generation become ever more callous,
cruel, unfeeling, and retaliatory, and it’s happening with such speed and
ferocity as to make one wonder what the end result of it all will be.
It’s understandable that the world rewards and gravitates
toward the edgy, the controversial, and those who heap scorn upon anyone within
earshot with all the glee of a toddler knocking down a wall of blocks because
they are unregenerate, and in watching others wound their contemporaries they
get to vicariously experience what it’s like to wield the power of the tongue in
the most destructive manner possible.
Whether true or not, whether deserved or not, it seems that once
one wound is inflicted, the mob can’t resist picking up stones and joining in.
If there’s blood in the water, there will be a feeding frenzy. It’s nature
taking its course. It’s both predictable and inevitable.
They convince themselves that whatever horrors the individual
set upon will suffer are well deserved, and that they’re doing God’s work by
kicking a man while he is down without ever taking the time to figure out
whether he should be in the dust, gasping for breath to begin with.
What isn’t as understandable is when those who ought to have
new minds and new hearts, those who ought to operate from a position of
compassion and see those within the household of faith as members of the same
body, take to imitating the world with the same glee and enthusiasm as the
world.
When someone in a church body is hurting, grieving, or
growing weary, to heap more pain upon their sagging shoulders is akin to taking
a hammer to your own thumb, not accidentally, but on purpose. Again, we’re not
talking about unrepentant sin or open rebellion, but the trials of life that
buffet each of us sooner or later.
Neither Bildad nor Job’s two other friends could identify a
sin or any wickedness in his life that warranted the level of hurt, pain, and
loss he was enduring, but that didn’t stop them from concluding that he was deserving
of worse still. Though they claimed to be his friends, they displayed no
compassion when it came to Job’s suffering, and that is very telling as far as
the condition of their hearts is concerned.
They wanted Job to be guilty of something because it would tie
everything up in a nice little bow while simultaneously confirming their
conclusions. There would be no need to ponder the notion of heretofore unseen
mystery, nor acknowledge that they may have been wrong in their assertions that
Job had done wickedness. There would be no need to humble themselves and admit
that perhaps they didn’t know everything, after all.
Humble pie never goes down easy. For some, it’s downright
unpalatable, and so they do everything they can to avoid it. They would rather falsely
judge a situation or an individual than admit they were wrong and need to repent.
When compassion or love for the brethren is the driving force
behind our actions, the hope is for comfort, encouragement, and restoration
rather than insisting that it is within our right to be both judge, jury, and
executioner. It strokes the ego to no end to pretend we were a version of
Ceaser in Rome, where a man's life hung in the balance, determined by the flick
of a wrist and the positioning of a thumb. An upward-pointed thumb and you are
judged innocent. A downward-pointed thumb, and you are judged guilty, no matter
what defense you mount or the insistence with which you decry the lack of
evidence.
High horses and soap boxes are all well and good as long as
you’re the individual astride them, passing judgment, but the day will come
when another will sit astride the horse, or stand resolute upon the soapbox,
and it should come as no surprise when you are judged with the judgment with
which you judged.
Matthew 7:2-6, For with what judgment you judge, you will be
judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. And why
do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye but do not consider the plank in
your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from
your eye’; and look, a plank is in your own eye? Hypocrite! First remove the
plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from
your brother’s eye.”
One cannot be merciless and demand mercy. One cannot be
callous and expect comfort. Jesus Himself said that with what judgment you
judge, you will be judged, but few nowadays take that into account when their
blood gets hot, and the need to be right overshadows everything else.
God was not deaf to what Bildad and his friends were saying
to Job. He hadn’t tuned out, waiting on the sidelines to see how this would
play out, and as we progress further into the book of Job, we see that God has
much to say to both Bildad, Eliphaz, and Zophar.
With love in Christ,
Michael Boldea, Jr.
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