If someone’s friendship, respect, or loyalty is contingent on what you can do for them, just know that, much as they might insist that they’ll be with you through thick and thin, it’s situational, and once you can no longer provide the thing they’re after, they will be the first to disavow you.
We see this happening in churches nowadays, where the
prominent members get preferential treatment, are pandered to, are placed in
the front row and fawned over, but the moment they’re no longer able to write
the checks, or their name wanes in popularity, and it’s no longer profitable
for the preacher to associate himself with them, they’re discarded. Such
individuals are within their rights to feel like they were used, whether for
their money or their clout, because that’s precisely what happened.
Not only do they begin to grow bitter and disillusioned, but they
also readily come to the conclusion that everyone’s the same, the whole church
family thing is a farce, and they become resentful toward God Himself.
Whether prince or pauper, we are all the sheep of God’s
pasture. When those in authority place value on something someone can offer
rather than the individual himself, it always ends in disaster because it’s not
the way the Word of God tells us the household of faith should operate. As one
body, those who can help those who need it, but that does not make them
superior to those in need.
While we busy ourselves mimicking the church of Corinth, we
should acknowledge that they weren’t held up as an example to be followed, but
a cautionary tale to be avoided. They did the same thing two thousand years ago:
the rich sitting and congregating with the rich, the poor set apart and looked
down upon, and when Paul wrote his letters to them, he gave them no quarter, nor
did he excuse their behavior.
As Job’s trial progressed, so did his isolation and
loneliness. We are not given to know when his own servant would no longer
answer his call, but it likely occurred later than when his hardship commenced.
The servant had seen Job’s trials intensify day after day and at some point had
concluded that he wasn’t worth the bother. He wasn’t long for this world, so what
did it matter if he pretended not to hear his master’s call? Herein lies the
difference between a principled, honorable individual and an unethical one.
There is a broader theme here, one we can learn from, because
oftentimes the servant takes it upon himself to covet the position of his master,
and in so doing uses every opportunity to undermine him. When you see
individuals who are meant to be servants disagreeing with the written word of
the Master, you know that they are not content being a servant, but desire to
usurp the authority of the one whom they claim to serve. They pretend not to
hear His voice when He warns them to repent; they ignore His word when it gives
explicit instructions about what the office demands, all the while hoping that
men will look to them as the authority rather than to God.
I don’t care how well-known, how prominent, or how many
titles the individual has assigned himself; if he attempts to downplay,
disregard, or usurp the authority of scripture and make it his own, he is to be
marked and avoided. He is no longer serving the Master faithfully but attempting
to become a master in his own right. Unfortunately for them, there can be only
one Master, and anyone other than Christ is a cheap imitation, floundering
about, trying to magnify their own relevance at the expense of Jesus.
The one silver lining in this otherwise melancholic situation
is that once your fair-weather faux-friends have gone, you realize God remains,
and He is sufficient. The way forward for Job was now clear. He saw both the
vanity of all things, the faithlessness of friends, family, and servants, and
the all-importance of knowing God all at once.
God replaces every bullet point on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
Instead of needing self-actualization, God. Instead of needing safety, esteem, or
security, God. Instead of needing love from others or a sense of belonging, you
have the love of God and know that you belong to Him.
God isn’t just one aspect in the believer’s life; He is
everything in the life of the believer. He isn’t just an outer shell covering
up a patchwork of hubris, rebellion, disobedience, doubt, and indecision, so
those we come in contact with don’t shrink back in horror. When we are born
again, we are transformed, made new, emptied of what we once were that we may
be filled with Him, His presence, His Spirit, and His purpose for our lives.
Whether it’s Job’s declaration that he knew his Redeemer lives,
and one day he would see Him for himself, or Paul’s testimony of having counted
all things loss for the excellence of the knowledge of the Lord Jesus, both men
had come to the same conclusion: God above all! God above my will, my desires,
my wants, my needs, and my very life.
All of Him for half of you doesn’t work. Picking up your
cross and following after Him on weekends, then doing whatever you want the
rest of the week, doesn’t work either. Declaring yourself to be an ambassador
of Christ when it costs you nothing, then shrinking away and denying Him like
you were Peter by a bonfire at the slightest pushback, means you were never
truly His to begin with, because true worship, obedience, and servitude aren’t
situational.
Job’s faith in God gave him the eyes to see beyond his
present situation. It gave him eyes to see the glory that would come, that once
his skin was destroyed, he would see God in His glory and majesty. Faith allows
us to see beyond our present struggles and gives us spiritual eyes to see the
future glory. Faith doesn’t give us hope for a better tomorrow, but assurance
of an eternity in His presence.
With love in Christ,
Michael Boldea, Jr.
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