Job 30:1-8, “But now they mock at me, men younger than I, whose fathers I disdained to put with the dogs of my flock. Indeed, what profit is the strength of their hands to me? Their vigor has perished. They are gaunt from want and famine, fleeing late to the wilderness, desolate and waste, who pluck mallow by the bushes, and broom tree roots for their food. They were driven out from among men, they shouted at them as at a thief. They had to live in the clefts of the valleys, in caves of the earth and the rocks. Among the bushes they brayed, under the nettles they nestled. They were sons of fools, yes, sons of vile men; they were scourged from the land.”
When being
mocked, ridiculed, or looked down upon, it matters who is doing the mocking and
ridiculing. If it’s coming from someone you respect, someone you deem an equal,
or someone you look up to, whatever they might say holds more weight than if it
were someone you never knew, or someone who has, over time, proven themselves
to be undeserving of your reaction to their mockery.
It’s not so much
that hurt people hurt people; it’s someone looking for an axe to grind who will
use every opportunity to do so, and Job’s current situation was the perfect
opportunity for those who had felt slighted by him in any way throughout their
existence to lash out and do their worst.
Job was fully
aware of who was mocking him. He had identified them, knew them from his life
before he’d lost everything, and there was no reason for him to feel hurt by
what they said because they were neither men nor the sons of men he’d
respected.
Some might look
at Job’s words, a man whom God had deemed blameless and upright, and conclude
that his words regarding how he viewed his mockers were a bit harsh, but we don’t
know what was said about him, for how long, and how vociferously. Armchair
quarterbacking might give someone an inflated sense of their own importance,
but it’s rarely factual, true, or warranted.
The thing about
mockers is that it’s never a one-and-done endeavor. It’s not as though they say
one mean thing and then go on about their lives, especially if the person their
barbs are aimed at doesn’t react the way they would like him to.
Job had enough on
his plate where it is a logical conclusion that, though he’d heard their
mockery, he had not reacted to it. That only emboldened them all the more, and
they likely doubled down on their invectives toward him.
If you don’t
respond to their attacks, it just makes them angrier and more rabid. If you do
respond, it makes them louder and less logical. There’s no winning when it
comes to mockers and their desire to put you in your place, at least as far as
they see it, because they operate from a position of indignation and pour all
the resentments of life, resentments you likely had no hand in causing, into their
desire to bring you down a peg.
Sometimes they
get so spun up that by the end of it, they see you as the cause of every
calamity they’ve endured from the moment of their birth to the present, even if
you’ve never met them in person or looked them in the face. You’re just a convenient
target, and as far as Job was concerned, he was a target they did not think had
enough strength left in him to put up a defense.
Evidently, not
only had their words reached his ears, but Job was able to identify who the
words belonged to, and in a cutting retort, he reminds those within earshot
that he used to disdain putting these selfsame individuals’ fathers with the dogs
of his flock. These were not the offspring of men he’d respected, nor were they
individuals pregnant with wisdom, for they were younger men than he, and he
knew the stock from whence they came.
If the book of
Job were set in the Wild West rather than in the desert four thousand years removed,
a good comparison of what he said regarding those who mocked him would be “I
knew your daddy when he begged to polish my boots, and even that he wasn’t good
at.”
Know who it is
that’s leveling accusations, mocking, and talking behind your back, and
determine their motivation, as well as whether they’re worth the time to acknowledge
their backbiting. Is it someone you respect enough to make their words cause
you hurt, or is it someone who’s just trying to get attention by using you as
the means to do so?
It’s a practice
that has become commonplace of late, where someone no one’s ever heard of
starts leveling attacks on people they’ve never met, hoping that their attacks
will gain the traction they’re dreaming of and elevate them to some level of
prominence.
If a teaching is unbiblical,
by all means, prove it biblically, but there is a difference between ad hominem
personal attacks regarding a personal preference that the Bible never weighs in
on and false teaching or false doctrine.
We are called to
defend the truth, we are called to stand for it, preach it, teach it, and obey
it. We are not called to mock someone endlessly because they wear bolo ties
instead of neckties, or because their preferred footwear is cowboy boots rather
than Italian loafers.
Job assessed those
who mocked him and concluded that they weren’t worth his time. They were gaunt
from want and famine, and plucked broom tree roots for their food. They were
driven out from among men, sons of fools and vile men who were scourged from
the earth, so what did it matter what they thought of him? What did it matter
what they said about him?
His own friends,
men he respected, men who by their own words were proven to retain a modicum of
wisdom, had done their best to dispirit Job, and it hadn’t worked, so why would
the words of those who were driven out from among men and shouted at as at a
thief have an effect on him?
The only opinion
that mattered to Job was vertically focused, and not horizontally. What God thought
meant everything. What men thought meant less than nothing. Value the opinion
that matters, and the only opinion that matters is God’s.
With love in Christ,
Michael Boldea, Jr.
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