A few years back, when I was still traveling a lot more than I am today, I’d gotten to my destination a little before midnight, ready to check in and get some much-needed sleep. Even as I walked through the sliding double doors, I could hear raised voices coming from the check-in counter, but since I needed a bed, and the only way to get to it was to go through the process, I shuffled closer to the counter to see what the hubbub was all about.
An incensed woman
was almost screaming and gesturing at a young lady who couldn’t have been more
than twenty about how she wanted her room comped because although she’d
requested two queen beds, she’d gotten a king, and that just wouldn’t do.
To her credit,
the young lady did not reciprocate in raising her voice, but in a calm tone
said, “I don’t have the authority to do that, ma’am. The manager will be here
in the morning, and you can speak to him.”
Although that did
nothing to lighten the mood or calm the yelling woman’s anger, the terms of the
conversation had been established, and no matter how much she pointed, waived,
yelled, threatened, and insisted that she was about to call her lawyer- which,
since it was almost midnight, was absurd on its face, never mind that it was a
La Quinta, and people who stay at La Quinta rarely, if ever, have a lawyer on
retainer that they can wake up in the middle of the night- the young lady just
stood there, a passive, serene look on her face.
Eventually, she
asked the screaming woman to move aside so she could help the next customer, which
happened to be me, also the only other customer. When I got up to the counter,
after giving her a credit card for incidentals and a form of ID, and watching
her chicken peck something into her computer, she looked up and said, “Your
reservation is for a king bed, but unfortunately we’re sold out for the night.
I can give you two queens if that’s okay.”
I shrugged, told
her a bed was a bed and I just needed some sleep, and after asking how many
keys I needed and gesturing with my index finger, I was in my room in less than
five minutes.
I never did find
out whether the screaming woman got comped for her room, but the point of the
story is one we would do well to heed: know the limits of our authority, and do
not exceed them!
The young lady
knew she couldn’t accommodate the screaming woman because she didn't have the
authority to hand out free rooms to every irate customer. It wasn't in her job
description, and if she had done as the woman demanded and the manager found
out the next morning, it would have either come out of her paycheck or she
would have been fired for the presumption.
When men assume
the mantle of God’s authority without His express permission, when they presume
that their word is law and God must accede to their judgment, there will always
be consequences, whether that entails a rebuke or, if it persists, punishment.
It’s neither
sinful nor wrong, but wisdom itself to say I do not have the authority to make
a judgment on this matter! It may not be what the other parties want to hear,
and it will do nothing to balloon your pride; then again, you won’t be courting
God’s wrath being aroused against you either.
Between trying to
play at being Solomon and remaining humble enough to acknowledge that God’s
authority on any given matter far exceeds yours, choose the latter over the
former every time.
It’s one thing to
call out a consistent, unrepentant pattern of sin; it’s another to assume that
the individual has sinned because they are going through a trial, a hardship,
or a testing. One is provable, demonstrable, and something that must be dealt
with; the other is an assumption of causality that has no basis in fact.
It must have been
a tough pill to swallow, being told that the man you tried to convince was
guilty of wickedness was the selfsame man who was now supposed to pray and
intercede on your behalf before God, lest God deal with you according to your
folly. If Job’s friends had the right of it as they’d assumed, then it would have
been they that would have been called upon to go and pray for Job, and perhaps
lay hands on him. If their presumptions had proven true, this story would not
have ended with them having to humble themselves and go to Job entreating him
to pray for them.
Once God speaks,
nothing else matters. Neither Eliphaz nor his two friends attempted to justify
their behavior or debate God on the merits of their conclusions. They neither tried
to mitigate their actions, nor did they insist that God was asking too much of
them, since they were well-intentioned in attempting to get Job to see the
error of their ways.
God told them what
they needed to do so that they would not be dealt with according to their
folly, and they did it: no backpedaling, no whining, no justifying, just obedience
to the prescribed remedy.
Psalm 96:10-13, “Say
among the nations, ‘The Lord reigns; the world also is firmly established; it
shall not be moved; He shall judge the peoples righteously.’ Let the heavens
rejoice, and let the earth be glad; let the sea roar, and all its fullness; let
the field be joyful, and all that is in it. Then all the trees of the woods
will rejoice before the Lord. For He is coming, for He is coming to judge the
earth. He shall judge the world with righteousness, and the peoples with His
truth.”
When God speaks,
we either obey or go the way of rebellion. When He calls us out and identifies
what we must repent of, we either follow through and do as He commands, or
continue pursuing the things He’s told us we ought not to pursue.
It’s not that God
doesn’t offer us a remedy, a means of reconciliation and restoration; it’s that
many are too stubborn and stiff-necked to humble themselves in the sight of the
Lord, do as He instructs, and receive forgiveness.
With love in Christ,
Michael Boldea, Jr.
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