If Job were the man Eliphaz painted him to be, his rebuttal toward Eliphaz’s accusations would have sounded very different than what he answered. Here was a man whom his own friend painted as heartless and cruel, one who would merrily watch widows going hungry and men dying of thirst, who didn’t lash out angrily, who wasn’t caustic or biting in his response, who didn’t threaten or go on the offense, but whose only desire was to have an opportunity to plead his case before God.
Even when you are being accused of things you haven’t done by
people you trusted, there is a certain decorum you must retain, and a particular
way you must approach your defense. Surely, Job could have leveled his own
accusations at his three friends; he’d known them long enough to know every
time their actions or words did not mirror the righteous men they claimed to
be, but Job wasn’t in the habit of fault mining, going toe to toe with baseless
accusations, or trying to justify himself because there was nothing to justify.
He didn’t need to explain why his friends were wrong in
interpreting what he’d done as wicked because he’d done nothing that could be
misconstrued as such. When your first reaction is to defend yourself against
baseless accusations, things that were said about you that were made up out of
whole cloth, you’re playing the devil’s game, and it’s a game you can’t win.
A couple of years after I started traveling with my
grandfather, there was a man who felt compelled to write a lengthy letter after
he’d heard my grandfather give his testimony, insisting that rather than being
a man sent by God to warn a nation to repent, he was a Russian agent whose
mission was to dispirit the people of America, and make them see themselves as
less than the shining light on a hill that they were. Yes, it was convoluted
and had no basis in fact, but since we answered every letter we received,
usually by hand, I took it to my grandfather and read some of the highlights
contained therein, asking for guidance on what to answer.
To my surprise, because it was the first time he’d said
something of the sort, he said, “nothing. When you entertain a fool and give
him your time, you validate his foolishness and become a fool yourself. This
man has made up an entire story, and insisting it’s not true will only make him
dig his heels in. God will judge; He always does.”
That was one of those seemingly innocuous moments that taught
me a life lesson. There was no prophecy, no casting out of demons, no fiery
sermon, just a handful of words that I remember from time to time, reminding
myself that not every question deserves an answer, and not every accusation
merits a defense. An obvious lie will eventually expose the liar. The secret is
having the patience for the situation to work itself out and not react in the
flesh, so that in mounting your defense, you become the thing you’ve been
accused of being. I’ve seen people grow bitter, resentful, angry, and hateful
because they were accused of something they hadn’t done, and rather than let
God deal with it, they sought to clear their name. It’s instinctual, to a certain
degree, to try and vindicate oneself, but once you realize that the one doing
the accusing isn’t looking for the truth and will twist every word you speak in
your defense to prove your guilt, you’ll realize it’s a hopeless endeavor.
Psalm 26:1-3, “Vindicate me, O Lord, for I have walked in my
integrity. I have also trusted in the Lord; I shall not slip. Examine me, O
Lord, and prove me; try my mind and my heart. For Your lovingkindness is before
my eyes, and I have walked in Your truth.”
Even though Satan was one among countless hosts of heaven and
sons of God, and when God called Job blameless and upright, none of them tried
to correct Him, Satan still tried to besmirch Job’s faithfulness and devotion.
It was all of heaven against one lone voice, but the one the voice belonged to
was so shameless and determined to prove God wrong that it didn’t matter to him
whether Job was blameless; he was not concerned with whether or not he was
upright; he’d find a way to make him seem less than the faithful servant he
was.
The truth? Since when do we let the truth stand in the way of
a self-serving narrative? What does the truth have to do with any of it? We’ll
take the truth and call it a lie, we’ll take the lie and twist it into truth,
and if you repeat both long enough, the simple-minded will go along because
they always do.
Through it all, God sees, God hears, God knows. He knows that
you have clung to your integrity, he knows that you have trusted in Him, and He
knows that you have walked in His truth. He is not ignorant of the situation,
or those accusing you of things you never did, and it is He who will vindicate,
and bring to light the snares set before you, that the enemy was certain you
would fall into.
Job wasn’t trying to vindicate himself; he was seeking to be
vindicated by the God he’s served his entire life, a God who, for the first
time in his existence, seemed distant, hidden, shrouded, and far from him and
his cries.
If you are not the man or woman the enemy is accusing you of
being, he will try to use others to turn you into it. It’s the most evil and
sinister type of projection wherein the enemy, being fully aware that you are
walking uprightly, with integrity and faithfulness, begins to level unfounded
accusations and whispering innuendos to the point that your focus shifts from
faithfully following after Him to defending yourself.
Keep following Jesus; God is your defender. Keep pressing in;
God is your vindicator. Do not be distracted by the slings and arrows of men or
devils. Your duty is to put on the whole armor of God that you may be able to
stand against the wiles of the devil and his minions. If we’re too busy trying
to stand against the enemy in our own strength, not having bothered to put on
the armor, we will lose. If we are wise and focus on putting on the whole armor
of God, leaving nothing unattended, come what may, we will stand. Sometimes the
reality of a situation is as simple as that.
With love in Christ,
Michael Boldea, Jr.